That said, with all the options out there, shopping for the vibrator that’ll turn you on every time you switch it on isn’t all that simple. In fact, considering all the bells and whistles and hefty price tags some of the vibes of 2020 are boasting, it can be pretty freaking hard
You heard it here first, folks: masturbating is pretty much essential to your mental and physical health—I’m talking pain relief and better sleep here. And when you bring a vibrator into the mix, you’re signing up for all those good-for-you benefits and toe-curling orgasms on demand.
We talked to sex experts to come up with this list of the 23 best vibrators for women in 2020, whatever your ~vibe~ (lol, get it?). With the guesswork out of the way, you can spend less time online and more time in bed.
“Vibrators can help your body learn to respond to a variety of sensations,” says certified sex therapist Kat Van Kirk, resident relationship and sex expert at Adam & Eve. “It also creates more variety in your sexual repertoire and can spice up your long-term sexual relationships
Consider what you are looking for,” Alexandra Fine, CEO, and co-founder of Dame Products and a certified sexologist, recommends. “What type of experience do you want this tool to help you unlock?” Clitoral stimulation, for example, could be something you want to focus on—or maybe penetration’s more your thing.
Dame’s new vibrator, Zee, just launched last November. Instead of silicon, it’s made from a type of silky-smooth plastic called ABS (which, fun fact, Legos are made from), then coated with a soft-touch spray. Why do you ask? Because this thinner material makes room for Zee’s super-powerful motor
Looking for a toy that you can use with your S.O., too? We-Vibe Unite is perfect for slipping in between you and your partner. It stays put while it pulses, allowing you the freedom to caress yourself elsewhere or keep grinding along with its vibrations. Like to take your time during sex? That’s totally fine because this Lil’ thing can go for up to 60 minutes straight (do people actually last that long? Asking for a friend).
Le Wand Vibrator
Le Wand is a freakin’ classic, which is why so many experts recommend it as the best vibrator for women. So it’s not the most discreet-looking toy (but, TBH, who cares?). In fact, it’s on the bigger side for a reason. It’s meant to be used all-around your clitoris for earth-shattering orgasms, or you can angle part of its head to reach inside you for some internal-type pleasure. It’s got 20 vibration patterns, 10 different speeds (um, r u serious?), and it’s USB rechargeable. Look, it’s called ‘the wand’ for a reason. It’s magic.
Just here to put yet another bullet vibrator on your radar. The video Bam Bullet has **10** different vibration patterns (huge), and it’s made of soft silicone. While it might be little, this one packs quite the punch. And FYI, certified sex coach and author of All The Fucking Mistakes: a guide to sex, love, and life, Gigi Engle says bullet vibrators are “the best place to start,” since they focus on the glans (aka your clit’s head), which is “where the vast majority of women discover their potential for orgasm and pleasure.”